The homework is to simply feel into what it is to be in the presence of your family. Feel into your "role", do you like it? is it draining? is it awesome? just feel who you are when you are with the family that you grew up with. Our growth will come long after we move out... but what is it that we take with us? what is it that we are growing from? growing toward? How influential were/ are these connections in your cutting edge life experience?